Those that are on my Facebook know that my kids and I celebrate everything. If it’s a wacky holiday, we celebrate it! Life is too serious, doing this mom thing is exhausting, being a kid is stressful so this helps lighten the week and gives them something to look forward to! Most of these things don’t cost much money or can be done with things you already have! With the holiday season fully underway, I wanted to share some ideas with you!
Grinch Party: This is one of the kids favorite things we do! We make grinch floats (Green sherbet and 7 up) and pop in the Grinch movie! You could add other green foods to make it a snack and float night so you get out of cooking supper! Winner!
Christmas Light Adventure: Surprise the kids with a ticket (can make on a word document) to be turned in as they enter the vehicle. Have them wear pajamas, slippers and bring their blanket. You could make or stop for hot chocolate to share, pop on some Christmas music and head out to find the best Christmas light displays! When the kids were younger, I had a scavenger hunt we used one year, could also do a make-shift bingo for them to cross off if they see a Santa, reindeer, etc. Pop in a Crockpot meal that morning and supper can be ready when you get back!
Baking Party! Grab all the ingredients for your holiday baking and put them to work! This doesn’t seem much like a party, but adding party to it sounds more appealing to them and the kids are more excited to help out! Turn on the Christmas music station, have the kids decorate boxes to put their goodies in- this will become one of your favorite memories! Fun Fact: December 18 is National Bake Cookies Day.
December 9 is National Christmas Card day! As much as we all want to send out the perfect Christmas Card, have the kids decorate the card or the envelope! Grab the Hobby Lobby 40% off coupon and use that to get some cute things for the kids to decorate cards with. Check with nursing homes or hospitals to see if your kids could send some to the residents there. Getting nice snail mail is becoming a lost art, this will be a great teaching moment! I love this idea from Octavia & Vicky on easy kid Christmas Cards.
Advent: Jesus is the reason for the season! There are so many wonderful ideas on Pinterest for Advent ideas. This kid-friendly Advent idea from Jen at “Being Confident Of This” is the one we did last year! It was a lot of fun!
This season is all about making memories. Each year that my oldest gets closer to graduation the more I realize that these beautiful memories will someday be replaced with kids coming home from college, future son/daughter in laws and grandbabies. I want to grab as many memories as I can with my kids while they are still little.
If you have fun traditions that you do each year, comment below or head over to my Facebook page here to share with me! I’d love to hear them!
Fun fact of the day: On average, people between the ages of 18-24 look at their phone on average 74 times a day! As a mom, I’m sure that number is higher. I’m constantly looking at the weather (I literally forget what the weather said in minutes), checking email, making sure the kids are being appropriate on Snapchat, checking the school’s facebook page, checking lunch menu and referencing Pinterest for my supper menu ON TOP of the typical 74 checks!
Just as we unclutter our homes, our minds, we also need to unclutter our phones!
Go through and really decide what apps are necessary and cut the rest that aren’t bringing value to you!
Shut off notifications that aren’t life altering!
Decide how you can use your phone to better your days. Do you need a scheduling app? Reminder app? List app?
Pick a venue for photos! Photos clog up your space quickly! Make a plan to upload these as soon as you take them whether it be to Facebook albums (you can make albums private for only you to view so you can quickly upload to Walmart/Walgreens to print later), or to a photo printing place such as Snapfish, another option being loading them into your Google account.
My 3 Favorite Apps
Scheduling: My favorite scheduling app is Cozi. Not only does it color code, but it is shareable! You can add your husband, children, even mother or mother in law onto the app as well! This allows them to easily pull up what is going on. You are also able to make shopping lists within the app, which are also shareable (Thanks husband for grabbing the milk and toilet paper tonight!). The best part- it’s FREE!
Google Drive: This is where I keep track of random brain dump moments, create lists, and jot down notes. You can open it from anywhere later and it’s also shareable. Again- it’s FREE!
Voxer: Voxer is basically a walkie talkie for your phone! My husband has it as well as my girls. With the click of a button you send voice messages to each other. It is like a voicemail without the hassle! You can also share video, pics and text through the app. We all love it! Guess what- it’s FREE!
Do you have a favorite app for your phone? Share below!
This weekend we spent wrapping up farm work. The wagons have been congregated to one area, the combine was hosed off and put away, the sounds of the chopper and the ripper still can be heard. The littles spent time helping dad around the farm doing odds and ends that have been abandoned during the peak of harvest. Here’s a recap from this weekend:
As a stay at home mom that works from home, it’s really hard to get a moment to yourself. When the husband offers you alone time, even if it means in a tractor going in circles for hours, you take it! There’s something peaceful about just being out there, alone, with bare ground and blue skies. I actually get a moment to think, to breathe and to sing as loud as I want along with the radio. It’s amazing how a few hours of serenity can calm your soul.
Mister has a new pet, a tiger salamander or “mud puppy” as we call them. It’s slimy, gross and keeps staring at me. I am so thankful that he has a huge loving heart for all living things but this reptile is causing my blood pressure to go through the roof. I keep reminding myself that Mister will only be little for so long, this stage is temporary… right?
Back to farm wife duties, I did drive the tractor on the road for the first time. Let’s be honest, I’m actually a great driver, I am accident free but that’s also because I avoid ackward parking situations (such as parking by too many cars, tend to stick next to safe zones like the cart racks, don’t really drive in big cities, and don’t get me started on parallel parking) and I drive a mini van. I sound like a 80 year old. Driving a tractor is a whole new ball game. Other drivers do not care that you’re on the road despite that you’re much bigger than they are. Naturally in the short drive I had to take I encountered a semi and a car. The worst was pulling into the farm yard. I knew that if I hit the chopper on anything I was good as dead. Long story short, it was terrifying. In my normal day to day activities, I don’t really do much that gets the adrenaline pumping like it did on that gravel road in the tractor. I did it, I didn’t wreck. It was a smile reminder that I can do things that are not in my comfort zone, I am able to learn new things, and the next time I need to pull the tractor into the farm yard that I will call my husband!!
Word fuel… it’s my jam. I’ve always been a “word junkie”. My Pinterest boards are full of quotes, affirmations, positive words, and fun lingo. I’m also a simple person. When I first heard of a “Word of the Year” a few years ago, I of course loved it! One word.. I can totally handle that! Here’s how it works…
The concept: Pick a word or phrase that will help be your focus for the year. Something simple. Something that sparks inside you. Something that will be your compass to keep you on your path throughout the year.
How to decide: What is something that you really want to get out of this year? What do you want to actually be? Do you need to do more of something, or perhaps less of something? To live life more intentional, what do you need to accomplish? Is there a mindset you need to develop, or fear you need to overcome?
How to use it:Add it to your journal, post it on your closet door to see each morning, post it to bathroom mirror, put it on phone background, in your planner, buy a shirt with the word on it, monogram a bag (good excuse to get a new bag! hehe), use it as the center of your dream board, or add it to your computer home screen. Create a Pinterest board full of things relating to that word. Little reminders that you can put everywhere to remind you of that word!
My 2017 word: Revive. 6 letters make up a word that is going to fuel my year. I chose this word right away. I needed a word that was going to define how I wanted my year to end, a complete revival. I am heading into the number 35 in years I’ve been alive. To me, it’s not a pretty number. I know that I want to feel totally different as I head into that number at the end of the year. I’ve been a mom for a super long time. I’ve focused on motherhood more than I have myself, for a super long time. Here’s what I want…
Mind: Stress is eating my brain. Have you seen the quote about your brain is like a computer with a million tabs open. That’s legit. We have so much to remember, schedules to work out, add tiredness to it, that equals exhaustion. We, okay maybe me, can’t be thinking as clearly as we want. Instead of my mind being full of open tabs, I want to be mindful of what I do, make clear decisions, have peace when I go to bed at night so I can sleep without thinking of the 200 things I forgot to do that day.
Faith: He restores my soul! Need I say more?!
Body: To be healthier. To remember food is fuel. I’m the only one that can take care of this body, I need to do so.
Business: Be my version of success, not someone else’s. Focus on work when it’s time. Not let it consume my day or my family time. Work hard, play hard. Continuing to offer what I can as a service to others.
Finally.. I will be sharing in the future how I use my word and what changes I implement. I am hoping that I can revive myself to feel good and to be the best mom/wife I can be! Let me know your word of the year below, I’d love to see what you pick!
We always think that once school begins, life will result to some sort of “normal”. Then school activities begin, Fall has arrived, and before you know it the holidays will be here!
Now that all of my children are in school, I’ve been finding my new “normal”. I have taken on more work as well as installed actual business hours. It’s nice! Sunday nights have always been my planning night where I plan the week, let my family know what’s going on, make some quick snacks for the week and menu plan. Now that I am spending 4 of my days as office hours, I’ve began planning on Sunday AND Wednesday. Wednesday is my day off, so I can get the cleaning, laundry, etc done. To break up the week, I now also use Wednesday as the day where I make quick snacks for the rest of the week.
This past Wednesday, I knew that Thursday we would have picture day. I’m not sure how picture day goes in your house but with 2 girls and now a little boy it can get chaotic quick! Last minute outfit decisions, hairspray, curling iron/ flat irons on the counters, and there’s always someone who’s not too excited about the whole ordeal! Wednesday I decided I better make something quick for the next morning so that making breakfast was the last thing I had to worry about. I decided to whip up a batch of the easiest (and healthiest- WW +2PP) muffins I could make! These are so fluffy, moist and everyone in my family loves them! Here’s the recipe:
Next is another super simple recipe but it’s so delicious! Homemade Applesauce! After taking a trip to the local apple orchard this past weekend, apples are plentiful around here. This recipe is just a bunch of ingredients thrown into the crock pot and then you let it do its magic! So easy! We ate some while it was still warm, also added some whip cream to the top. It’s amazing… have I said that yet? hehe
Do you have any quick go-to meals for when life gets busy? Share below! I’d love to hear from you!
One thing that can get out of control when it comes back to school time is meals! For me the chaos hours of 4-6p are the worst. Knowing that, I need to make sure I start preparing for it now! Here’s some tips!
Start limiting snacks now. My kids are grazers, they get it from me. They are so used to just going and grabbing a quick snack throughout the day before they go outside to play. The older kids are way past school snack time, so getting them back in the routine of eating a good breakfast and not “expecting” a snack at 10am is something we start working on now.
Decide some good breakfasts to have on hand just in case the mornings are rough at first! Some things you can make ahead are:
French Toast- cook it up, cool then freeze
Breakfast Burritos- choice of meat, veggies, cheese, scrambled eggs in a burrito then freeze. Make a big batch. Only takes a minute or two to warm in microwave.
Granola bars made yourself
Crock pot or freezer meal breakfast casserole
Breakfast bites- use muffin tin and layer tater tots, choice of meat/veggie diced thin, cover with scrambled egg mixture then covered with cheese. Put in oven 350 degrees. Freeze, warms well in microwave for just a few minutes.
Have the ingredients for smoothies on hand. Yogurt, orange juice, fruit, can add veggies or granola. Only take a few minutes to mix and can enjoy on the go.
Have a snack ready for when they get home or off the bus. Using a clear container in your fridge with portioned amounts or a bin in your pantry will help. You can get this all ready the night before as well and could make enough for a week. Think about high protein snacks for those that had lunch early. Boiled eggs, protein balls, fruit and peanut butter are easy ideas.
Plan on simple meals until you have a routine down for school nights. Crock pot meals, freezer meals, or quick casserole/grill meals are wonderful. Meal planning and knowing your schedule helps a ton! Create a place in your kitchen to let everyone know what supper will be. I use a photo frame with some scrapbook paper behind the glass. This way I can use a dry erase marker to write on the glass.. super easy!
What are you favorite tips or meals for back to school? I’d love to hear!
July is almost over, can you believe it? Soon the days will become shorter, our tans will fade, school will be starting and we will be finding ourselves back into a new routine.
As the end of July comes to a close, now is a perfect time to start preparing for August. Here’s some tips for what we as moms can be doing now to prepare for the August rush:
Decide bedtimes now. You may not start them yet, but letting your children know what time they will be going to bed can save you an argument in a few weeks. My children will all be in school, but different schools. We adjusted bedtimes based on that. I also let my oldest who will be going into High School what her curfew will be.
Designate homework spots. This will apply to all of my children. My high schooler will need a spot away from everyone to do studying, my middle schooler will need somewhere close to mom to work and my preschooler just needs to be aware that when the girls are there.. he is not. Those spots will also have a basket of supplies such as scratch paper, highlighters, pencils, scissors, glue stick, index cards and a calculator.
Decide a filing system. The first day of school the kids come home tossing papers around. With 3 kids- papers get misplaced easily! I set up a command center with folders so as soon as they come home, their papers go in there for me to go through. I’ll sign what needs to be signed and check homework after supper. This is a huge chaos repellent! haha!
Decide chores. Let them know what sort of chore system you’ll be using and get in the practice now. During the summer my children have more chores than normal. School time they’ll only have 1 or maybe 2 short ones.
Go through their clothes! This is one I dread! Have them go through drawers, closet, and under bed to get an inventory of what they’ll be needing so you’re not overspending. Nothing like buying 5 new pairs of jeans to find out their’s 6 pairs in her drawer already that she “forgot” about!
School time can be so crazy. There’s a lot to do! Starting now and preparing can help alleviate some of that chaos down the road. Now for my bloggers/direct sellers/wahm’s, I have some tips for you as well!
Get your planner ready! Map out things that need to happen such as team meetings, retreats, conferences, etc. This way when you get the basketball schedule, you won’t be surprised, you’ll know what’s going on!
Plan your work hours as well as your NON work hours. For me, the hours of 4-8pm are the busiest. So much to get done in 4 short hours before bed. My phone will be on silent so I can spend that time with my kids. Instead of working now whenever I can find time, in the fall I’ll be setting morning office hours. Adjust your schedule as you need… just set some hours AND communicate them!
A new season is ahead. Whether it be your products changing or your blog posts changing to focus on a different season, start brainstorming ideas. Once school begins it’s hard to remember every single thing. Think about starting a brain dump journal next to your bed or on the table to jot things down as you think of them.
Think of adding some technology on your phone to help juggle the roles of being a work at home mom such as adding in an app like Cozi. This way in between picking kids up you can glance at your phone and see that you need to pick up dishwasher tabs and milk on the way home. You can also use the calendar option to color code who’s doing what when.
Use time such as waiting at the school to pick kids up to do some social media posts, scopes, or quick videos. Take your brain dump journal with you and implement some of those ideas you’ve had! I have an office-on-the-go bag that I have worked out of all summer. I’ll continue to do so in the fall!
I hope some of these tips are helpful! This next week is a great time to start fresh and plan what you want to happen. It’s a transition for kids to go back to school… but it’s also a transition for the moms! If you need more help preparing for school time, make sure you email me or you are more than welcome to join my Facebook Community by clicking HERE.